Getting the Woman of Your Dreams / First Things First - Part 2

First Things First - Part 2

Women Want a Confident Man
Nothing is more attractive to a woman than a man that has the perfect balance of confidence – not wimpy and defeated, not cocky and arrogant. The best way to learn to be confident with women is to find men that are confident and are good with women. Not cocky, obnoxious and full of themselves, but confident enough to not constantly ask for permission subconsciously.
Watch these men start conversations; they are bold and do things on their terms. Watching confident men will help you build up the courage to try it yourself. And confidence breeds more confidence.
Having confidence will help you in every area of your life, primarily in the areas of decision-making and taking action. Most men are not self-confident, so when a man has the right mix of confidence and humility, a woman finds it exceptionally attractive.
One profound trait of a confident man is that he can identify his insecurities, which avoids a crippling hang-up. Insecure men spend most of their time trying to hide their hang-ups, where confident men can point them out and let go. By dropping the hang-ups you will stand out from other men. The more insecure men try to cover up their insecurities, the more insecure they appear to women. Everyone has insecurities, and no one is perfect.
Confident men believe they deserve success. They believe that a woman would be lucky to be with them.
How do you create this belief inside of yourself? First, start by writing down five reasons why a woman would be lucky to date you. This will help you remember why you deserve to be successful and why a woman should be with you. Once you believe this deep down inside, you will radiate confidence and that is attractive to women. You will stand out well about the other men out there. They’ll be attracted to you like a magnet!
There are several behaviors that are not characteristic of a self-confident man. First, they are not clingy. They don’t always need to know what the woman is doing, and they don’t feel left out when she wants to do something alone or with her girlfriends. They also don’t get jealous every time she gets excited about doing something fun without him.
A man with high self-esteem is mature and confident in what he is doing, his life plans, and who he is.

What a Women Wants
Women want and expect different things from different people at different times of their lives. Although this sounds vague, there are some consistent fundamental things that most women want when looking for a man. You’ll probably find many of the traits to be similar to what you want in a woman. There are seven key things that women want.
1.Women want a decent man they can fall in love with someday. Long before women fall in love though, there are other significant traits that they consciously and subconsciously look for.
2.They want someone who is hard-working. With a man who works hard, women know they will always be taken care of. A man who works long hours and can finish a project is viewed as industrious and reliable. Subconsciously women see hard-working men as stable.
3.Someone who is kind. A kind man doesn’t need to be weak and wimpy. Kindness is treating anyone or anything that is weaker than you with respect and care, like children, elderly people, animals, and the disabled. Holding open a door for an elderly woman is an example.
4.A man who is chivalrous. It sounds old-fashioned, but a woman will melt over a chivalrous gesture. Hold the door and let her walk through it first, pull out her chair before sitting down in a restaurant, hold her jacket or give her your own if she’s chilly.
5.A good mannered man. Just the basics here, but it’s important to follow what you were taught as a child, and if you weren’t taught good manners read about them and teach yourself now. Don’t chew with your mouth open, don’t talk with your mouth full of food, keep your elbows off the table. The basics.
6.A modest man with a sense of social and personal responsibility. Don’t brag about your community, charity and social involvements, it will have a negative effect. The lady will see your work as respectable and caring if she uncovers it on her own.
7.Lastly, a woman wants a guy who can commit. This is demonstrated through the ability to commit to a time and be punctual and show up when and where he’s supposed to be.

Where to Meet Someone
There are better, and more effective, places to meet women then at bars. At a bar, it’s difficult to distinguish between the type of woman you are looking for, and the kind of woman you don’t want to get involved with.
Consider frequenting these places when looking for a date:
Work. This is a touchy one. You don’t want to do a lot of dating at work because of the complications it will add to your work environment if it doesn’t work out.
Your friends. And your friend's friends. Ask them to introduce you to the single ladies you haven’t met before, but try to avoid the blind date set-up. They rarely work out and are awkward and a waste of time and money.
Clubs and organizations that focus on your areas of interest. Whether you already are a member or join a new club, there are bound to be women associated with these organizations. You will be able to see how a woman interacts with others before actually getting involved with her, which is a huge advantage when looking for a mate.
Church. If you currently participate in organized religion, you will be able to attend programs where there are single women in a stress-free environment. There aren’t any single women at the church you go to now? Shop around to different churches and consider attending a different church where single women attend.
Political and volunteer organizations. Women like men who volunteer, and many single women participate in political and civic volunteer opportunities.
Dating online. There are many different online dating services out there. Shop around to find one that works for you. You will create your own profile, and look through photos and profiles of other people. You’ll get in touch with women, talk to them online and on the phone until you mutually decide to meet in person. Get together for the first few dates during the daytime and in a public place, like a coffee shop. Going out for coffee keeps it easy to end the date if it doesn’t go well. If the date does go well, it’s also easy to then go out for dinner.

Who Should You Date?
Why is it that many men look to date the most attractive, but not-so-bright woman at the party? Women don’t typically look for the dumb stud to date. Mature women are usually looking for someone who has a big heart over his looks.
It’s important to not judge a book by its cover when looking for a woman. If you rule out everyone that is not gorgeous, you are eliminating many potential dates that could be the woman of your dreams. In the long run, you will be much happier that you found someone with a great sense of humor, who is interesting and smart. If she has the same interests as you, she will make a better companion for you than someone who just looks pretty.
In the most tactful way possible, it is helpful for you to find out how a woman’s last relationship ended. If she either blames her ex for everything or blames herself for everything, it’s not great sign. Look for someone that mutually parted and had a friendly break-up. Handling a difficult situation this way, and having the ability to explain it this way, is a sign of a mature, well-adjusted woman. Just be sure that you are not the rebound relationship.
Pick a woman who has similar big picture goals and views of life. Don’t make a decision based on the outside appearance only, and look for qualities that are important to you in everyone you associate with – both men and women.

Also In This Category:

Getting the Woman of Your Dreams
- Body Language:How to Tell If She’s Interested
- Attracting Women - Getting Started
- First Things First - Part 1
- Introduction - How To Get a Women
- Tips for Success When Meeting Women - part 3
- Chapter 4: Getting From Flirting To Asking Her Out
- The First Date - Part 1
- Chapter 3: The Ability To Flirt (1)
- Conclusion
- Chapter 2: A Lack Of Confidence Got You Down? (1)
- Are You Your Own Best Friend or Enemy?
- Positive Reconstruction of Negative Self-Talk
- Chapter 3: The Ability To Flirt (2)
- Look at Yourself – Know Your Attributes
- Introduction

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